Decide To Deal With Resentment
ACKNOWLEDGE the issue causing resentment
REMEMBER skills that work for you
EXECUTE a plan to forgive, or ask forgiveness

Feeling what your partner feels about events that cause resentment

Let’s face it, sometimes it is not easy to feel what another person feels in any given situation. But, if you can learn to do this, it may motivate you to want to do something about it if it caused pain or suffering in the injured partner.