What in the world are “structure” issues? They are the containers of your relationships and include things like the following:
Lack of Rituals
Not having dedicated time to connect
Never being alone without the children
Technology interfering with relationship
Lack of boudnaries regarding sharing information or decision making outside the marriage- with parents etc
Thinking me instead of we
One partner having psychiatric issues outside the marriage
Let’s look at each one and see what we can do about it.